Scripture:
Proverbs 24:26 – Whoever gives an honest answer
kisses the lips
Observation:
A true friend/brother, who has wisdom, will not avoid or overlook problems but honestly share them with someone. The friend, if wise, will receive the constructive correction.
Application:
There are many ways how a need for change can be presented and received. In today’s society, I think about star athletes or entertainers who all have their posse/crew mainly composed of “yes man” who go along with whatever is happening as long as the money and good times are flowing. When there is a problem, many are hesitant to speak up and the easy thing to do is turn a blind eye and say, “all good dog”! As a true friend, I must avoid the temptation to pass on the opportunity to speak gently in love and truth to someone who is on a path for destruction. I need to be in the word and in prayer for the spirit to give me the right words and for a friend to have an open mind/heart to receive counsel. Even when done in love, the message can initially be misinterpreted and received as hurtful/offensive. Though it can be difficult, we must do this in kindness and truth to help someone grow.
Prayer:
Father,
Thank you for love, grace and mercy in loving us while we were sinners to be reconciled to you. Let your Spirit guide me with the right words/actions to share with friends who a facing difficult situations. May you go before and open their heart and minds to receive correction in love.